The biggest concern most guys have when it comes to meeting and attracting women is not knowing what to say in those awkward first moments when you introduce yourself. So much of being attractive hinges on saying the right thing at the right time. However, the reality is that it actually doesn’t matter at all what you say when you talk to women, what matters is how what you say makes her feel.
Women are emotional creatures and if you are giving off a creepy or desperate vibe that’s going to turn her off. If you are making her scared she’ll run away. On the flip side if you’re making her happy and excited she’s like putty in your hands. So I’m going to show you five powerful emotionally seductive words that you can use right now to significantly increase your success attracting women.
#1 SUPPOSE
“Suppose” basically commands her to enter a hypothetical universe where you are in her life. Lead her into this universe and tell her something like “Suppose you went out with me tonight?” As she begins to think about what you are proposing, it will immediately become more real to her. She will want to say yes more.
You can also use this powerful tool to discover how her mind works while putting her in a position that forces her to imagine your life together: “Suppose if we got into a big fight, what would you do to make it better?” This may seem like it’s going to a dark place, but in reality you’re asking her to describe the good times of making up and activate the part of her mind that wants to win you back (even before you’ve ever been together in the first place!) Pay close attention to her response here because what she describes will basically be EXACTLY what she secretly expects you to do to seduce her.
#2 REMEMBER
“Remember” unlocks that classic nostalgia. Say something innocent like “Remember back in high school when people would exchange notes?” Or make her remember something happy by saying, “Remember the last time you felt happy? I feel that way looking at you.”
Our sense of smell is linked directly to our primal brain and thus has the most powerful memory recall. If you really want to hack her mind remind her of the pleasant smell of some fond moment in time: “Remember when we watched the sunset on the beach, the smell of the sea blowing over us as the seagulls flew and squawked through the air.”
Summoning a powerful positive memory gives you the ability to instantly recreate those positive feelings in the present. The more fully you are able to bring her back to her happy moments, the more she will want to share her happy place with you.
#3 EVERY TIME
“Every Time” suggests continuation and consistency. People subconsciously crave consistency. If you use the term “Every Time,” you are implying that she can rely on you for future times as well. This encourages her to trust you to satisfy her need for reliability and consistency. “Whenever I go to (the place you met) I think of you every time.” A simple sentence like this makes her feel important and signals to her that you are the sort of guy she wants to have a relationship with.
It doesn’t even matter what you’re talking about there are constant opportunities to slip these words in. Let’s put a few together in a quick demonstration: “Every time you are around we have such a good time. Remember that night we couldn’t stop laughing watching Netflix on the couch? Suppose you were relaxing like that right now.”
It’s just that simple and there is literally no limit to what you can do with these words!
#4 WHAT WOULD IT BE LIKE
“What Would It Be Like” is another one of those terms that introduces her to that hypothetical reality. (Que the Beach Boys hypnotic melody) “What would it be like if we were old and I had to take care of you?” You are taking her into the future and forcing her to imagine the ways it could be better being with you.
“What would it be like if we were dating and our dog had puppies?” There’s so much going on in this sentence that her mind will literally explode. One moment you’re sitting at a bar and next thing she knows it’s cuteness overload as your puppies invade her mind and she’s instantly in love with them. You just showed her another world better than this one full of happiness and of course in that world you two are together.
On one level she knows that world isn’t real, but it really doesn’t matter because just the thought is making her feel good… And at the end of the day people won’t remember what you said or did, but they always remember how you made them feel.
#5 IMAGINE
“Imagine” Now here’s a super powerful word. Imagine takes her on a mental journey. It opens her mind to new ideas. You get to plant ideas into her head if you make her imagine things. Whenever you say the word “imagine” people are absolutely unable to stop their minds from visualizing whatever it is that you say next. “Imagine the smell of fresh cut grass as we sit down to picnic together.” Can you smell that grass?!? Our brains are unable to resist the power of imagination. Though this door you can embed other subtle hypnotic command words such as relax or feel to subconsciously alter the tone of your encounter.
“Imagine if we could go on a trip and relax on a remote beach all on our own.” See how we used both words in one sentence? You can’t read these words without seeing yourself in that situation, hearing the sea and feeling the sand between your toes. Neither can your partner, and when she’s in that sort of dreamy state you have already begun to bypass her conscious mind.
You will know when she’s in that sort of state because her eyes will dilate a little and you may get an unconscious response in the form of a half-smile or a stroke somewhere on her body.